How To Make A Woman Fall In Love With You
1. Display maturity
It’s
always said that women mature faster than guys and are often found complaining
about how immature they act. Impress her with the way you deal with situations
and your outlook on the whole. Show her how responsible you are about finances,
or serious you are about your career. And demonstrate your ability to think
clearly and rationally when disagreements crop up or a conflict of interests
presents itself.
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2. Romance
her
Make her
feel good by keeping the romance alive in the relationship. You don’t have to
spend a whole lot of money doing this. Sure, there isn’t a woman alive who
doesn’t adore flowers and gifts, but you can also do things that don’t cost a
lot but can still enhance your relationship. Write her little notes or send her
a mushy card. Call her up just to tell her you’re thinking about her and can’t
wait to see her again. Be attentive and make her feel cherished and truly
special.
3.
Faithful
Don’t ever give her
occasion to doubt you. Let her know that you have eyes only for her and the
rest of the world takes a backseat. Let her sense your commitment to her and
your relationship. Being able to trust someone and truly rely on him is a very
powerful feeling. So many people profess deep feelings and then cheat on their
partners. Don’t just tell her but show her that she can count on you. Women
need to feel secure and once that is established, it takes the relationship to
a higher level.
4. Time
spent with her is precious
Make it
clear that you really treasure the time you spend with her, irrespective of
what you’re doing together. And prove it! For instance, if she suddenly tells
you she’d like to meet you because she’s finishing work early and you had
something else lined up, cancel it for her. That doesn’t mean you cater to her
to the exclusion of everything else, just that you sometimes sacrifice
something you care about to be with her. If she begs you to come see a movie
and you had plans with your buddies, do it for her and let her know subtly that
you did. She will surely reward you! Women also love it if you do some girly
stuff with them like shopping for lingerie, and aren’t afraid of sacrificing your
masculinity in the process. It just makes you more of a man in their eyes!
5.
Compliment her
You don’t
have to go over the top always telling her how good she looks or how gorgeous
her hair is or what a lovely outfit she’s wearing. A compliment has more effect
when it is sincere, well timed and often, out of the blue. While a woman always
loves hearing that she’s looking good, you can’t keep telling her that. It will
lose its charm eventually. A compliment is valued when there is a surprise
element to it. Telling her how witty you find her, how her intelligence turns
you on, appreciating how thoughtful and generous she can be, or her gentle
nature, all these are deeper compliments, which, when paid sincerely, make the
recipient feel ten feet tall.
6. Laughter
Use humor
as your biggest ally. If she enjoys your company and looks forward to seeing
you again, you’re rapidly becoming an addiction, and that’s just what you’re
aiming for. It’s not about making her laugh over your one-liners and finding
you hilarious. It’s more about being on the same wavelength and enjoying the
other’s sense of humor too. Or finding humor in similar situations or having a
favorite serial or sitcom, which you talk about and cracks you up. Finding the
same joke funny, or sharing a smile, draws you closer and makes you feel like
kindred spirits. It’s a great feeling!
7. Learn
what turns her on
And use
it to advantage. Find out just the kind of touch that excites her, how she
loves to be kissed. Don’t ever push her for sex or make her uncomfortable by
coming on too strong. Let her see the effect she has on you, yet keep a strong
rein on your passions if she decides she wants to call a stop to it. Let her
set the pace, and ensure she understands that while your desires for her are
strong, you will respect the limits she sets. Respect her and her body and she
will appreciate you more for it. Women love it when they can see how much they
turn you on and yet find you willing to take it slow for their sake. Also, when
you make love to her, don’t always kiss her or caress her as a lead up to
having sex. Do it just to make her feel special and because you want to convey
that to her, and she will adore you for it.
8. Give
her space
Don’t be
possessive and make her account to you regarding her whereabouts. Let her know
you trust her. Don’t expect her to spend all her free time with you. Let her
have her own life too. Often when in a relationship, people make the mistake of
spending every waking moment that they can manage together, and in the process,
alienate themselves from friends and even lose their identity. Let her be her
own person.
9.
Thoughtful
You
remember little things she told you, and remind her of it at opportune moments.
It may be that she once mentioned she loves having chicken soup when she’s got
a cold, and you land up with some when she’s got the sniffles. Or she’s told
you how she adores a particular entrée at a popular restaurant and the next
time you go there, you order it and surprise her. It makes her feel like you
genuinely listen to her and take the trouble to act on it and make her happy.
10. “I
love you”
And of
course, while showing her should give her the message, there’s
a lot to be said for saying it loud and clear. Tell her how
important she is to you. You might want to think about when you’re first going
to tell her those three words. If it's too early in the relationship, she might
be skeptical that you could feel so deeply so soon. And thereafter, it's not
just choosing the right moment, but making every small moment count. You don’t
have to wait only till you’re kissing her, or in bed. Saying it when it's least
expected makes it all the more precious. She might be telling you something and
the feeling just overwhelms you – tell her at that instant. She won’t mind being
interrupted mid-sentence!
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